Erections in older children are a normal physiological condition. There is no reason to panic. They talked to the boy, talking about all the intricacies of growing up. Mothers are not recommended to discuss intimate topics with their sons. This leads to awkwardness on both sides and the development of psychological trauma in children. Early signs of stimulation are not associated with puberty, their appearance may be the norm or the result of developed pathology.
Early signs of puberty
At what age the penis increases in boys, not all parents, especially mothers, know. Usually, the process begins at the age of 11-12 years, but there are small deviations.
The first thing teenagers notice is an enlarged penis.
- uncontrolled erections;
- night release;
- sexual attraction to girls;
- erotic dreams and other signs.
Adulthood lasts about 5 years. Testosterone, the male hormone, enters the bloodstream, leading to changes in the character and appearance of a teenager. The change in behavior is not surprising. Hormonal changes often make a young man aggressive and irritable.
The last formation of the reproductive system occurs at the age of 18, although many boys have their first sexual intercourse earlier. On average, this occurs at the age of 13-16 years.
Adolescent erections lead to a desire to experience the first pleasure in life, so most teens masturbate.
After catching a child in pornographic activity, parents are confused-they read morals, mocking the child. You can’t do this, you can ruin the relationship and cause serious damage to the man’s soul.
How does a young man change?
Mothers and fathers often wonder why a child’s behavior changes, and often not for the better. The man made a scandal, ran away from home, covered himself up.
Parents suspect their child is using drugs, having a relationship with bad company. Frequent interrogation does not lead to a good relationship and angers the growing child.
You can recognize enlargement with hair growth:
- on chest and face;
- in the genital area.
During the period of hormonal adjustment, the voice becomes rough and the sexual organs enlarge.
Naturally, the boy would not show his mother’s penis; adult males will be able to see such changes.
In the process of growing, sperm begin to accumulate in the testicles. It can already lead to conception. Before this opportunity arises, the boy must be aware of the intimate nuances and consequences of an unwanted pregnancy.
Adult men, preferably fathers, should bring the young man up to date. If this is not possible, the man studies the information himself - in books, magazines, the Internet.
You have to be careful with the latter. Rising men definitely want to watch intimate videos. The plot of the picture is different. By focusing on a particular video, a man can radically change his view of adult life.
Erections in adolescents are often accompanied by erotic dreams. A sufficient amount of sperm accumulates in the testicles, it comes out. The first wet dream scared the man. They are afraid of criticism from their parents, they feel guilty for dirty sheets.
The parents noticed that the son himself removed the bedding and put it in the washing machine. The mother or father should not ask unnecessary questions, putting the man in an awkward position. If the intimate topic has not yet been opened, it is time for the father to take some time to explain the situation. It is important to know at what age men wake up so as not to miss important changes.
Young men often do not remember their dreams and do not understand why ejaculation occurs. Some consider it pathological.
Nocturnal discharge in boys is a normal physiological condition in which sexual tension is relieved. Excessive accumulated sperm leads to discomfort. Even if a man is not yet sexually active, the body empties the testicle itself.
This happens in adulthood, but unlike adolescence, adults understand what is happening to them and do not feel ashamed.
It's full of:
- the emergence of guilt in an adolescent;
- psychological discomfort;
- loss of prestige;
- hostile relationship.
The young man will certainly appreciate the lack of interest in the appearance of erections and voluntary ejaculation.
Advice for moms and dads
You have to accept the fact to grow up. This is a natural process that needs to be started. During this difficult period, one should be careful and friendly, because one wrong word can ruin a relationship with blood for a long time.
Parents should not condemn their children for:
- uncontrolled erections and ejaculation;
- looking at intimate magazines;
- emotional changes.
Finding a teenager who masturbates, you have to keep quiet and pretend nothing happened, giving the child a chance to clean himself up. You also don’t have to focus on yourself. Doctors do not have a single opinion on this matter. Some consider the emptying of the testicles to be normal from a physiological point of view, others say that it is immoral and unacceptable.
Parents will not be able to influence this process, if a teenager wants to do this, he or she will always look for opportunities to retire.
Moral concepts must be applied from early childhood; during the enlargement period, this will be considered an invasion of personal space.
Erections at an early age
The signs of growing up in boys up to 6-8 years of age confuse parents. They sometimes appear in children of the first year of life. Often you don’t have to worry. That happened.
Non -hazardous causes include:
- tight underwear or uncomfortable diapers;
- overflow of urine;
- mechanical effects.
- Congenital malformations of the genitourinary system.
- Inflammatory processes in the intestines, bladder, testicles.
- Worm attack.
- CNS disorders.
- Circulatory problems.
- Foreskin infections and others.
Often the diagnosis is made during an initial examination by a pediatrician. Less frequently, it is necessary to conduct ultrasound of the genitourinary system, pass smears, blood tests, and so on.
Treatment is selected according to test results. Often, babies need antibiotics, physiotherapy, and more.
Acting alone is prohibited. Heat and cold compresses can seriously harm children, and medication intake will distort clinical signs and prevent a quick diagnosis.
"At what age does the penis grow? "- this question is asked by many parents, worried about whether everything is in order with the health of their son. The same question arises in adult men who are not satisfied with the size of their penis - they hope that growth does not stop until old age, the main thing is to follow certain rules.
What is the real situation: up to what age does the penis grow, why does the organ stop growing, what determines the size and how to enlarge the penis in an adult male? We will now provide answers to these questions.
The developmental stage of a child
- The first stage, intrauterine. The penis and scrotum are formed in the fetus at 16 weeks, by this time it is already possible to determine the sex of the unborn child.
- The second stage, pre -puberty. Before the onset of puberty, the male genitalia are underdeveloped (infants, i. e. children). In infants, penis size is only 1. 5-2. 5 cm, the head of the penis is not visible, the foreskin is narrowed (pediatric phimosis). The further growth of the penis is proportional to the growth of the boy.
- Stage three, puberty. With the onset of puberty (for different men it happens in different ways - at the age of 12-15 years), the growth of the genitals becomes more intense. There is an increase in the testicles, there is a growth of the penis. Every three years, the organ adds an average of 3-4 cm. The growth is accompanied by other signs of puberty - Adam's apple is formed, the voice breaks, hair appears on the face and body.
Intensive penis enlargement can be seen in the first three years (up to about 15-18 years). Further, penis growth slows down (maximum penis increases by 1 cm per year), and, as a rule, at the age of 19-21 years the penis reaches its maximum thickness and length.
If a teenager is not doing well
What if a young man who has started puberty does not have the expected penis growth? No need to panic, the fact is that everyone changes at different times. If the symptoms of maturation do not occur at the age of 15-16 and the genitals still remain in the condition of the baby, then this is already a cause for serious concern - hormonal disorders may be a possible reason for the lack of proper growth. penis.
Another question - what size is considered normal? During adolescence, you don’t have to panic about size - growth can slow at first, and then in a year the penis can stretch 5-6 cm at once. The following are considered minimum penis lengths in children and adolescents:
- age 11 years-4-6 cm (with a boy height of 142-148 cm);
- age 14 years - 6–9 cm (with a boy's height of 158–168 cm);
- age 16 years - 7–9 cm (with a boy height of 165–172 cm);
- age 20 years - 9. 5-12 cm (with a height of 174 cm).
The erect penis of a sexually mature man, whose size reaches 9 cm or more, is considered normal from a medical point of view. With a size of 3-9 cm, there is such a thing as a small penis. Less than 3 cm is an anatomical anomaly called micropenis.
What affects the length
What determines the size of a man's penis? First of all, genetics. The presence of various diseases during the development of the boy's body also has a great influence. If in childhood a man has a complicated disease of the reproductive or endocrine system, then with high probability this will negatively affect the genitals. So, for example, with a testosterone deficiency of 60%, there is a decrease in the intensity of penis growth.
Another important factor in penis development is lifestyle. For example, nutrition can affect - for the normal construction of the body, a sufficient amount of building materials is required. Among the products for the growing body of boys, nuts (walnuts, almonds, pistachios), herbs (parsley, dill, cumin), garlic, asparagus, pomegranates, figs, dairy products, beef are very useful.
Parents should carefully monitor that their child does not develop bad habits: if a teenager starts drinking alcohol and smoking before puberty is over, then dampness in his body development is guaranteed.
And what about adults?
The natural growth of the penis in men after puberty (18-21 years) does not occur. It's just that some experience a delay in the development of the reproductive system and maturation can end as early as age 25 - such cases are rare, but still occur. If there is no delay, then after the age of twenty, it is not worth it to calculate the fact that the penis will grow less.
True, there are artificial penis enlargement methods for men who cannot accept the length of their dignity. It is necessary to use these measures in a situation of complete despair, after all, each of these methods has its own contraindications and side effects.
Of the most common methods for adult male penis enlargement, it should be noted:
- Hormone medication for penis growth (called growth hormone).
- Use of extenders (orthopedic devices for stretching soft tissues). Give an increase of 1-2 cm.
- Installation of implants in the intracavernous space of the penis.
- Ligamentotomy is a penis enlargement surgery by reducing the perineum.
- increased vacuum. The penis is inserted into a cylinder, from which air is expelled from the other end by means of suction.
- Salt injections. Changes in size are observed only for a few months, then the saline solution is gradually resolved
Keep in mind that the listed procedures are quite unpleasant, because a man's intimate zone is very sensitive. All these methods are recommended not for cosmetic purposes, but when there are medical indications for penis enlargement (for example, in the case of micropenis, when a normal sexual life is not possible).
If you still want to increase masculinity, then you can try special sprays and ointments, compositions that produce an irritating effect. As a result of the increased blood flow and the resulting swelling, the penis visually appears a few centimeters larger. The effect derived from such funds is short -term - usually several hours.